[Meta] Sexual Preferences

From belongstohim

OOC: Answered based on RP with belongstohim.


NOTE: I have answered these questions, based on what I would order or impose, rather than what I would do myself. Also, in any questions regarding the submissive serving or servicing with another, no other men besides myself are intended. The furthest left number is the combined rating, the next number is mine, the third is Anne's.

Rating scale for checklist:
0 = Don't ever ask me to do this. (HARD limit)
1 = I don't want to do this activity, but if it's important to my partner I can be persuaded. (soft limit)
2 = I'm not interested in this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of me.
3 = I'm willing to do this activity, but it has no real appeal for me.
4 = I usually like doing this activity, at least on an occasional basis.
5 = I love doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
6 = I love this activity, it makes me "hot", and would like it as often as possible.

Note1. Some of these may fall under a few categories (example: Blindfolds can be Humiliation & mental bondage)
Note2. Some of these could be used for health reasons too (example forced exercising)

CORPORAL PUNISHMENT

10 5 5 Belts
10 5 5 Bruises
10 5 5 Cane (leather)
8 4 4 Cane (plastic)
10 5 5 Cat (braided)
8 4 4 Cat (no knots)
12 6 6 Crop
10 5 5 Leather Paddle
12 6 6 Paddle
12 6 6 Spanking
10 5 5 Whip
12 6 6 Wooden Hair Brush
12 6 6 Wooden Paddle

HUMILIATION

0 0 0 Act as objects (furniture, etc)
8 4 4 Age Play
0 0 0 Bathroom use control
0 0 0 Bathroom use in front of others
10 5 5 Blindfolds
8 4 4 Boot worship
7 3 4 Chauffering
10 5 5 Crawl on 4's
0 0 0 Cross Dressing
12 6 6 Curse words (Whore, Slut, etc)
12 6 6 Curtsy in public
12 6 6 Dom chooses food
12 6 6 Dom chooses clothes
0 0 0 Enema
9 5 4 Eye contact restrictions
7 3 4 Foot worship
3 0 3 Forced Cross dressing
10 5 5 Forced dressing
4 1 3 Forced exercising
12 6 6 Forced nudity
12 6 6 Forced masturbation
12 6 6 Forced prostitution (pretend)
12 6 6 Forced slave auction (pretend)
11 6 5 Forced to be a slave
12 6 6 Forced to wear a leash
8 4 4 Forced to wear see-through clothes
0 0 0 Golden shower
9 5 4 Harem--serving w/other(s)
0 0 0 Hood
12 6 6 Kneeling
10 5 5 Maid services
8 4 4 Mask
1 0 1 Pet roles (act like a dog, cat, etc)
7 4 3 Scolding
0 0 0 Spitting in face
8 4 4 Serve as waitress
10 5 5 Serve others (supervised)
2 0 2 Serve others (unsupervised)
0 0 0 Shave head
9 5 4 Shave body hair
9 5 4 Shave pubic hair
10 5 5 Slap face
8 4 4 Spanking (public)
10 5 5 Speech restriction
10 5 5 Stand in corner
0 0 0 Suck pacifier
0 0 0 Swallow urine
8 4 4 Take Pictures
12 6 6 Verbal Abuse
12 6 6 Wear Collar everywhere


BONDAGE

4 1 3 Arm Sleeves
12 6 6 Blindfolds
12 6 6 Breast bondage
10 5 5 Gag
8 4 4 Cage
10 5 5 Chain
8 4 4 Chastity Belts
0 0 0 Genital bondage
3 1 2 Harness
0 0 0 Hoods
10 5 5 Immobilization (short time)
7 3 4 Immobilization (long time)
0 0 0 Inside a closet
0 0 0 Inside a coffin
12 6 6 Leather cuffs
12 6 6 Leather restraints
3 1 2 Leg Sleeves
2 1 1 Mask
5 2 3 Mouth bits
10 5 5 Nipple Clamps
0 0 0 Rack
12 6 6 Rope
12 6 6 Scarves
8 4 4 Shackles
4 1 3 Sling
4 1 3 Spreader bar
4 1 3 Steel cuffs
4 1 3 Steel restraints
1 0 1 Tied to a cross
12 6 6 Wrestling

EDGE/MIND PLAY



9 4 5 Abrasion
12 6 6 Asphyxia
8 3 5 Branding
12 6 6 Choking
9 5 4 Clothes Pins
11 5 6 Cutting
8 4 4 Electric (violet wand)
8 4 4 Electric (muscle stimulant unit)
12 6 6 Face slapping
12 6 6 Hair Pulling
12 6 6 Hot wax
12 6 6 Ice
10 5 5 Fire and Ice (same time)
8 4 4 Knife play
0 0 0 Medical scenes
3 1 2 Needles
2 1 1 Piercing
10 5 5 Pinching
10 5 5 Rape Fantasy
12 6 6 Slap Face
11 5 6 Get Face Slapped
2 1 1 Sleep deprivation
2 1 1 Tattoo
0 0 0 TENS units
12 6 6 Tickling


FETISH WEAR

12 6 6 Corsets
5 2 3 French maid
0 0 0 Child/Baby
9 5 4 High Heels
12 6 6 Leather
10 5 5 Lingerie
0 0 0 Mask
10 5 5 Slutty clothing
4 1 3 Spandex
10 5 5 Uniforms
12 6 6 Victorian

SEXUAL D/S

8 4 4 Anal
8 4 4 Anal beads
8 4 4 Anal plugs (small)
3 1 2 Anal plugs (large)
1 0 1 Anal fisting
8 4 4 Anal (vibrator/dildo)
8 4 4 Ben-wa balls
5 4 1 Bi-sexuality
12 6 6 Chastity Belt (on submissive)
12 6 6 Cock Worship
7 4 3 Force bi-sexuality for submissive
12 6 6 Hand jobs/Fingering (giving)
12 6 6 Hand jobs/Fingering (receiving)
12 6 6 Masturbation
4 3 1 Orgy (more than 3)
12 6 6 Oral sex (giving)
12 6 6 Oral sex (receiving)
12 6 6 Orgasm Control
12 6 6 Orgasm Denial
12 6 6 Phone sex (voluntary)
3 1 2 Phone sex (force submissive to have it with others)
12 6 6 Sexual denial (short term)
7 3 4 Sexual denial (long term)
2 1 1 Sexual Double Penetration
12 6 6 Swallow semen
0 0 0 Swapping
4 3 1 Threesomes
12 6 6 Vaginal sex
3 1 2 Vaginal fisting
6 3 3 Vaginal Toys
2 1 1 Vaginal - Anal intercourse (same time)
6 3 3 Voyeurism (watching submissive play w/others)
6 3 3 Voyeurism (watching others play)

A simple way to use these scores, in order to determine the types of activities that two people will engage in together, is to add each person's score together with their prospective partner's score for the same item. If the combined score is 6 or less, the activity is one that they won't engage in together. It takes a minimum of 7 to result in an activity occurring.

(Why is that? Because if one of the two people has a 0 score, signifying a hard limit, even a 6 from the other person can't contradict it. If they had a 1, signifying that they'll only do the activity if it's really important to their partner, it'll take a 6 from the other person to meet that requirement. Same with 2 and 5 -- one person is uninterested but the other is enthused -- and then 3 and 4 -- one person is neutral and the other person likes it.)

7 and 8 would be sporadic activities, not done all that often.
9 and 10 would be activities that occur regularly, but not constantly.
11 and 12 would be activities that occur on an almost constant basis and are generally ingredients of virtually every scene the people play out.


I see we are thinking very much alike, my Lady.